7 Ways to Get Back to Being ‘In Love’
Have you ever said, “I love her, but I’m not in love with her”? Here’s how to get back in love again. —— Being “in love.” How do you maintain it? How do you keep from experiencing what I have heard so many people say. “I love her, but I’m notinlove with her”. Is it luck? Hard work? A choice? Yes. I have watched many decide to divorce. To admit they have failed in maintaining love for someone they vowed to love. Forever. It feels awful. I know. I have done it myself. I have also known many who remain married. For whatever reason. Financial. “The kids.” Habit. Maybe there is love there, but hardly anything about it feels fresh. Like the love was born today, not years ago. I like to ask a question in therapy. “Knowing all the things you know now, why would you marry your partner today? What would cause you to say “I do” all over again?” If you don’t know the answer to that question, it’s pretty likely you are not happy in your marriage. That’s not to say it’s hopeless. 1) Maybe you are ha...